When my husband was to retire at the age of 62 in 2003, as the CEO of a prominent hotel group, I was very nervous as I had heard numerous tales where wives went into depression or completely berserk after their husbands attained superannuation. Coping with a husband 24×7, 365 days a year, the curtailment of perks that come with your husband’s position, and moving into a new place with strangers around were some of my concerns.

What made retirement a joy, instead, was a decision we took to do everything together. I was working with an NGO but I gradually gave it up, with no regrets. Every day, we made a to-do list of chores and also visited friends and family. We were excited about the quality time we were spending together, sometimes just walking and trying out new eateries and cafes. It was courtship time once again, after 35 years of marriage! Soon, we were planning exotic holidays and cruises with children and friends, which we enjoyed immensely.

We also bought a small place at Mashobra near Shimla and started spending the entire summer amid the cool, fresh air there. Now, we are part of a larger social group of likeminded, retired people who meet regularly for breakfast or lunch at somebody’s villa.

Life is a never-ending party in Mashobra, with activities like cards, golf, coffee meets and evening cocktails to keep us in good spirits. Every year, it is also common to welcome a couple of new knees, stents and bypasses! The idea is to enjoy the hills to the hilt; for that, the most important thing is good health.

I also dabble in writing and Mashobra has been a peaceful and inspiring getaway to indulge this creative pastime. I have written three books, each revolving around a different stage in my life. I also write a blog called Midlife Euphoria.

Studies show that social interaction is an important contributor to good health. We are blessed to be part of a retired community that celebrates each day with verve .

—Poonam Kirpal, 62, New Delhi

Featured in Harmony — Celebrate Age Magazine
October 2018